Co-dependency upon a spiritual teacher

TOPICS: Any tool given can be misused by the ego - true gurus seek to help you avoid co-dependency - using the outer guru as a tool for contacting the inner guru -

Question: I came across a channeling where the channeled entity says that students should not enter into a guru/chela relationship because of the chela’s dependency on the guru. What is your comment on that?

 

Answer from ascended master Jesus through Kim Michaels:


Concerning the idea that people should not enter into a guru/chela relationship, there is some validity to the idea that this can cause certain students to become co-dependent upon the guru. In the physical octave, everything is a two-edged sword. The Bible is given to people as a means to their spiritual progress. Yet millions of people cling to a specific interpretation of the Bible and therefore abort or slow down their growth. It is an inescapable fact of life that the tools, which the ascended masters give as a means to people’s liberation, have the potential to become a blind alley that cause people to become stuck at a certain level instead of taking the next step on the path.

Many students develop dependency upon a guru. This is never productive. However, if the student has a true guru, the guru will always seek to help the student overcome this dependency. Therefore, I disagree with the general statement that one should never enter into a guru/chela relationship. The fact that a tool can be misused does not mean that one should abandon the tool. 

 

Imagine that a helicopter has come to rescue you. The helicopter has landed on the roof of a nearby building. However, to get to the roof, you have to climb the stairs. While it is true that you should not become co-dependent upon the stairs, it is equally true that if you do not climb the stairs, you cannot make it to the roof. The guru/chela relationship is indeed a viable way to attain swift spiritual growth, and for many people it will be extremely difficult to attain that growth without an inner or an outer guru.

The key to overcoming the problem of dependency is to realize that the outer guru is simply a tool for helping you attain conscious contact with the inner guru, namely your Christ self.

 

 

 

Copyright © 2003 by Kim Michaels

Add Blog RSS Feed to Your Reader

feed-image Subscribe

Blog

Sound files webinar

2020-06-02

The sound files for the Holland 2020 webinar are now on the subscribers website, in a folder named Women2020.

 

 

Webinar times and last call to sign up

2020-05-29

 
For practical reasons, we will not be selling access to the webinar after midnight CEST Friday, May 29th, so if you are planning to attend but have not yet purchased the webinar, please do so before then.
 
 
Apparently there has been some confusion about the time difference, so I wanted to clear that up.
 
The times given for the webinar are based on the time in Copenhagen, Denmark, which is on central European summer time (CEST), which is UTC +2.
 
The easiest way to figure out the time difference between your location and CEST is to search for time zone converter, or use this link:
 
https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?iso=20200529T070000&p1=69&p2=235
 
Enter your home town first, then enter Copenhagen and the program will give you the time for both locations so you can figure out the difference.
 
 

Webinar important info

2020-05-26

As of today, Tuesday, June 26th we have sent emails to those who have purchased the webinar for the liberation of women.

If you purchased the webinar and if you have not received the email, please look in your spam folder.

Then, email Kim at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

 

NOTE: If you have received the email, you do not need to email me.

 

A second new invocation

2020-05-21

There is now another invocation for the liberation of women.

 

Please use this alternately with the first one, or if you have time, give both of them once a day before our conference.


Click here.

 

 

New invocation for webinar

2020-05-18

There is now a new invocation for stopping the exploitation of women.

 

The masters request that as many people as possible give this invocation daily before the webinar. Please consider giving it even if you cannot participate in the webinar.

 

You can find the invocation here.

 

 

kodulehe tegemine