TOPICS: Sex is not a sin – programmed to have more sex – decide not to submit to aggressive programming – how you spend your energy – two types of sexual desires – insatiable desire – satiable desire – focusing on spiritual desires – a decision about sex – raising sexual energy to the heart – base chakra – physical arousal and the base chakra – visualization for raising energy –
Question: Beloved Jesus, please recommend some technique for sublimation of sexual energy. For instance, to use sexual energy for opening of the heart.
Answer from ascended master Jesus through Kim Michaels:
Let me begin by saying that contrary to what so many churches, including many Christian churches, have said, there is nothing inherently wrong or sinful about the sexual union between a man and woman. If practiced with pure love, sexual activity is not a sin and will not misqualify God’s energy.
That being said, I must tell you that in the world of today it is difficult to keep the sexual relationship pure. This is because the advertising industry, heavily influenced and supported by certain dark forces, are constantly bombarding people with images, suggestions and even subtle energies designed to increase sexual desire. Furthermore, many people have developed, as a result of of this bombardment and certain other forms of social programming, the attitude that they are entitled to have unlimited amounts of sex.
Therefore, if you want to keep your sexual relationship pure, or if you do not have sexual relations, you need to defend yourself, you need to defend your energy field and your mental and emotional body, from the bombardment of sexual suggestions and energies.
This defense must begin with a decision. You must realize that you are being aggressively and maliciously bombarded with sexual suggestions and you must decide that you are not willing to submit to this programming. Therefore, you must decide to avoid such suggestions whenever possible.
It is also extremely important that you use the proper spiritual technique to defend your personal energy field (the energy field surrounding your physical body) by building a shield of high-frequency spiritual energy around it. We have given techniques for protection and another efficient technique is Archangel Michaels Rosary.
When I say that there is nothing inherently wrong about sex, I am in no way implying that people can have all the sex they want without paying the price. Life in the material universe is a matter of deciding how you use the always limited resources available to you. If you spend time on one activity, you cannot spend that same amount of time on another activity. If you spend time and energy on sex, you cannot spend that time and energy on activities aimed at producing spiritual progress.
One of the most important realizations you can come to about sex is that there are two kinds of sexual desire. The lower mind, also called the carnal mind or body mind, is as a computer that runs the physical body. One of the functions of this body computer is to insure the survival of the body, and this includes propagation. Therefore, the body mind is programmed to want sex all the time.
Many people give in to this desire and their entire lives revolve around sex. They are either having sex, working towards having sex or feeling like they should be having more sex. The bottom line is that the carnal mind’s desire for sex is an insatiable desire. No matter how much sex you have, it will never be enough for the carnal mind.
If you give in to this insatiable desire, you will open your personal energy field to the suggestions of the outside world. You will also make yourself vulnerable to certain lower forces that will seek to invade your energy field. I have described such entities in greater detail in the book The Christ Is Born in You. These forces also have an insatiable desire for sex, and they will seek to project that desire upon you. If you give in to this, your life will be consumed by an insatiable desire for sex.
When a lifestream first descends into the material universe, the lifestream has a desire to experience the many things you can do with a physical body, and this includes sex. There is nothing inherently wrong or sinful about this desire. However, it is essential to recognize that the lifestream’s desire for sex is a satiable desire. In other words, a lifestream can truly have enough sex and decide that it wants to spend its time and energy in pursuit of more spiritual goals.
It is normal that during the course of one lifetime, a lifestream gradually loses its desire for sex and begins to focus more on spiritual activities. There are also many lifestreams who have basically overcome their desire for sex in past embodiments and who are therefore ready to give it up on a permanent basis.
The most important thing you can do before you attempt to sublimate sexual energy is to decide where you stand on this matter. Once you have a firm inner decision of how you look at sexual activity and how you desire to practice or not practice it, you stand a much better chance of escaping the outside bombardment as well as the insatiable desire of the carnal mind.
One of the big mistakes made by so many religious people, especially many monks, nuns and priests of the Catholic Church, is that they never come to this decision. They simply decide with their outer minds that because the church says sex is sinful, they must attempt to repress all sexual urges. This will be an uphill battle for most people, and for some people it will be a losing battle. This is clearly demonstrated in the sexual abuse by Catholic priests.
So what I am saying here is that before you even attempt to use a technique to sublimate sexual energy, you should make an effort to come to an inner clarity about your attitude toward sex. To build this inner clarity, use the technique for inner attunement that I have given on the toolbox website. Strive to make contact with your Christ self and with me. Do not fear to approach me or to ask me questions about sex. Contrary to what so many Christians seem to believe, I have a perfectly natural and relaxed attitude to sex. There are no taboo topics for me. You can ask me any question, and I will answer. Your Holy Christ self, and I, will be more than happy to help you clarify and resolve your attitude towards sex.
Once you have inner clarity, apply the following technique for raising sexual energy to the level of the heart.
A technique
As stated in many places on this website, science has proven that everything is made of energy. Your energy field has certain centers, often called chakras. When you express mental or emotional energy, you express it through these energy centers. One of the energy centers is located at the base of your spine at the same height as the genitals. In esoteric teachings, this is often called the base chakra.
When you are exposed to suggestive energies from the outside, this energy often enters your base chakra and pollutes it. The desires of your carnal mind can also pollute your base chakra. This can cause the base chakra to be discolored, and for many people this chakra radiates red or orange light. If the base chakra is pure, it radiates pure white light.
When you feel a physical stimulation, that stimulation begins in your base chakra. The chakra begins to spin and to radiate misqualified sexual energy which then arouses your physical organs. In other words, physical arousal always begins with energy in the base chakra. If you want to sublimate the spiritual energy, you must cause the energy to rise from the level of the base chakra to the energy center in the middle of your chest, often called the heart chakra.
Visualization:
As soon as you feel any kind of sexual stimulation, make an immediate decision to stop the energy from flowing into your sexual organs.
Focus your attention on your base chakra and visualize that it begins to spin more quickly so that it throws off all imperfect energy and begins to radiate pure white light. To help with this visualization, you might visualize myself or Mother Mary, over your base chakra. Certain ascended masters are associated with certain types of spiritual light, and Mother Mary is working with the white light, also called the Mother Light, of the base chakra. Therefore, she is more than willing to help you sublimate sexual energy.
When you feel that your base chakra is radiating white light, visualize that the white light rises up to the heart chakra and is expressed through that chakra as the pink light of love. You might visualize your heart chakra as a pink rose with 12 petals. The rose spins and radiates a beautiful, soft pink light.
Focus your attention on a spiritual being, be it God, Mother Mary, myself or another spiritual being of your choice, and send this intense love towards the spiritual being.
Visualize that you make contact with the spiritual master and establish a figure-eight flow between yourself and the master. You are raising the energy from your base chakra to the level of your heart and sending that energy to the spiritual master. The master is then sending the energy back to your heart chakra where it connects in a figure-eight flow to your base chakra.
Visualize this figure-eight flow between yourself and the Master until you feel that all impure energies have been purified.
Once you begin to practice this technique regularly, it will become almost automatic. You can do it anywhere in a few seconds, and you will be amazed at the results. However, no spiritual technique works against your free will. Therefore, you must begin by clarifying your attitude towards sex and by making a firm inner decision about your relationship to sex. This is a decision that only you can make.
Copyright © 2003 by Kim Michaels